About

Hi, I'm Betty

Integrative Therapist  ·  Keynote Speaker  ·  Podcast Host

MSEd, MHC-I  ·  New York City

Betty Gulko — Integrative Therapist

My Story

My path into this work has never been a straight line — and I think that is exactly what makes it meaningful.

I began in education and behavioral therapy, working closely with children, pre-teens, and adolescents. I hold a Master of Science in Education from Touro University, with a specialization in Special Education and General Education and a focus in psychology. That training shaped how I understand development, learning, and the ways emotional and behavioral needs are always connected.

From there, I spent years providing ABA-based therapeutic support to young people with behavioral, emotional, social, and developmental needs — learning, in the most grounded way possible, what it actually takes for someone to feel safe enough to change.

I am now completing a second graduate degree — a Master's in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Capella University — and working as an MHC-I in New York State through my affiliated practice, Evolve Integrative Therapy. Everything that came before lives in this work.

Therapy services are provided through my affiliated practice, Evolve Integrative Therapy. Coaching, speaking, and personal growth offerings are available independently. Learn more on the Services page.

The Path

How I Got Here

Every chapter of my career has been shaped by the same question: what does it actually take for a person to feel well, grounded, and like themselves?

01

The Foundation

Education & Early Training

I began with a Master of Science in Education from Touro University, specializing in Special Education and General Education (Birth through Grade 6), with a focus in psychology. That degree shaped how I think about development, learning, and the ways in which emotional and behavioral needs are often inseparable from academic ones.

Working in schools and educational settings, I learned early that meeting a child where they are — rather than where you expect them to be — is not just good pedagogy. It is the foundation of any meaningful relationship.

02

Years of Clinical Groundwork

Behavioral & Therapeutic Support

From education, my path moved into behavioral and therapeutic work with children, pre-teens, and adolescents. I spent years providing ABA-based therapeutic support to young people navigating behavioral, emotional, social, and developmental challenges — in homes, schools, and clinical settings.

That work was slow, careful, and deeply relational. It taught me that real change rarely happens through technique alone. It happens through trust, consistency, and the experience of feeling genuinely seen and understood. That foundation has never left me — it lives in every session I hold today.

03

An Unexpected Thread

Styling, Branding & Self-Expression

Alongside my behavioral work, I built a practice in personal styling and branding. On the surface, it might seem like a departure — but it never felt that way to me.

Working with people on how they presented themselves, I kept encountering the same thing: the way we inhabit our own identity is rarely just about aesthetics. It is about how safe we feel being seen. How much we trust ourselves. How connected we feel to who we actually are. Confidence and self-expression, I came to understand, are not separate from emotional wellness. They are part of the same conversation.

04

Reaching Further

Podcasting, Wellness & Media

I launched Chat With Betty because I kept meeting people who were carrying real, quiet struggles — about self-worth, anxiety, relationships, identity — but who were not yet in a therapy room and did not know where to turn.

Podcasting became a way to meet them there. To make mental health conversations feel less clinical and more human. To say: you are not alone in this, and it is okay to talk about it. That work continues today, and it remains one of the most meaningful parts of what I do.

05

Where Everything Converges

Clinical Mental Health Counseling

I am now completing my second graduate degree — a Master's in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Capella University — and in many ways, it feels like the natural destination of everything that came before.

The years in education, the behavioral work, the styling, the podcasting — all of it has shaped how I understand people, how I listen, and what I believe healing actually requires. I work with pre-teens, teens, young adults, and adults navigating anxiety, self-doubt, life transitions, and emotional overwhelm. Therapy services are provided through my affiliated practice, Evolve Integrative Therapy.

06

The Constant

Speaking & Community

Throughout every chapter, I have spoken publicly about mental health, confidence, and resilience — in schools, at events, and in community spaces.

The goal has always been the same: to make these conversations more accessible, less intimidating, and more honest. To reach people before they reach a breaking point. To normalize the work of understanding yourself.

My Philosophy

What I Believe

Everything I have done — the behavioral work, the styling, the podcasting, the clinical training — has led me to a few core beliefs about what it means to truly support another person.

Growth is not a destination. It is an ongoing, often nonlinear process of becoming more honest with yourself — and more willing to meet yourself with compassion along the way. The work is not about fixing what is broken. It is about understanding yourself more fully, and learning to move through life with greater ease, self-awareness, and a sense of your own worth.

I also believe that healing looks different for every person. There is no single path, no correct timeline, no version of this that should feel like performance. What matters is that you feel safe enough to begin — and supported enough to keep going.

Wherever you are in that process, there is room for you here.

WarmthEvery person deserves to feel genuinely seen and supported — not managed, assessed, or rushed through a process.
HonestyReal growth begins with honest self-reflection. I will not tell you what you want to hear if something truer needs to be said.
CompassionHealing is nonlinear. It should never be shamed, compared, or held to someone else's timeline.
AccessibilityMental health conversations should be open, human, and free of the clinical distance that makes people feel like problems to be solved.

Let's Connect

Ready to Begin?

If you are ready to begin — or simply curious about what working together might look like — I would love to connect.